HOW EBONY WOMEN CHANGED MY LIFE…
AND WHAT YOU’VE GOT TO KNOW
BEFORE DATING ONE!
❓ FAQ: My parents are totally against me dating “outside of my race” – what should I do?
Let’s keep it real: you’ve got a few options, and only one of them keeps your self-respect intact.
a) Rebel Mode:
Say, “F You — I’ll Be With Whomever I Want.”
👉 Works if you’re ready to stand tall, deal with fallout, and never back down.
b) Hide Mode:
Stop dating the person… or keep it secret.
👉 Short-term easy, long-term miserable. Living in the shadows kills relationships.
c) Adult Mode (‘if you’re a chicken-shit):
Sit down with your parents and say, “This person matters to me. I’m an adult, I make my own choices, and I want you to respect that — even if you don’t agree.”
👉 Respect without surrender. You set boundaries, you own your love life, and you keep dignity.
BUT _ Ima keep it real:
fwiw I ALWAYS Say Fk YOU to anyone who can’t respect my choices…Cuz I love and respect myself and the wonderful black women I’ve been with.
Yeah it’s cost me…in my 20s i got kicked out of my parents mansion and had to struggle in a studio apartment..
But that’s fine with me — I’d rather live with my black wife or gf in modesty, than some fancy ass mansion with prejuduced people any day of he effing week.
FAQ: My parents are totally against me dating “outside of my race” – what should I do?
Let’s keep it real: you’ve got a few options, and only one of them keeps your self-respect intact.
a) Rebel Mode:
Say, “F You — I’ll Be With Whomever I Want.”
👉 Works if you’re ready to stand tall, deal with fallout, and never back down.
b) Hide Mode:
Stop dating the person… or keep it secret.
👉 Short-term easy, long-term miserable. Living in the shadows kills relationships.
c) Adult Mode (‘if you’re a chicken-shit):
Sit down with your parents and say, “This person matters to me. I’m an adult, I make my own choices, and I want you to respect that — even if you don’t agree.”
👉 Respect without surrender. You set boundaries, you own your love life, and you keep dignity.
BUT _ Ima keep it real:
fwiw I ALWAYS Say Fk YOU to anyone who can’t respect my choices…Cuz I love and respect myself and the wonderful black women I’ve been with.
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prejuduced people any day of he effing week.